This week, I came across a quote by author James Ray. He was addressing a common question that he is asked—“How do I find my soul mate?”
His answer was simple. “Like attracts like.”
What he is saying is familiar by now, especially with the recent phenomenon of the book and movie “The Secret.” But I loved how he related it to finding love—and in our case healing heartache.
The take home message: your last love was a reflection of who you were at the time.
Do you know what this means? You have the power to change what you attract to you in the future.
What his answer outlined is the basic premise behind the Step 2— “Imagine.” First we imagine where we are going next, then, we work on becoming the qualities that we wish to attract.
Isn’t this an empowering thought? You don’t have to move mountains to attract a love that is better for you than your last relationship. You don’t have to worry about orchestrating a grandiose plan that will bring the two of you together. You simply identify the qualities that you would like to see in your mate, and then take the steps necessary to become those qualities yourself.
Aimée is the founder and director of Spreading Blessings Media, a company which provides tools for inspired living. If you would like to receive a free copy of her From Heartbreak to Wholeness ebook, or schedule an intuitive reading today- see www.spreadingblessings.com
